Simply Semi-Happy in the Marriage.

Marriage does not make a person entirely happy. That's what many Americans feel, especially the increasing cases of infidelity political figures there, the affair Arnold Schwarzenegger and Anthony Weiner. Pew Research Center reveals as much as 40 percent of Americans think marriage is stale. Meanwhile, another study states, people aged 18-29 is more concerned with how to be good parents, rather than how to have a good marriage. They are no longer happy in the marriage. They are trapped in marriages that only provide 'semi-happiness'.

Semi-happy feeling that a lot infidelity and divorce. Marriage is characterized by low frequency and quality of conflict between couples, low desire, and lack of satisfaction. "A minute ago you liked the stability and satisfaction of the wedding, but a minute later you'll think this is wrong and marriage is the real shortcomings seriously, although many great things in it," explained historian who is also the author of Pamela Haag Marriage Confidential: The Post-Romantic Age of Workhorse Wives, Royal Children, Undersexed Spouses, and Rebel Couples Who Are rewriting the Rules. You do not want to continue to exist in it, but you also do not dare to step out.

Boredom is often a big problem. National survey conducted in 3341 has claimed as many as 25 percent of people bored with their monogamous relationship. Another 25 percent is being admitted at the edge of boredom. How to attack the immune system, creating boredom affair, according to Ian Kerner, PhD., Founder of Good in Bed and author of Love in the time of Colic: A New Parents' Guide to Getting It On Again.

Women feel lonely, while men feel trapped. Not a problem getting married too soon or too late to get married. The problem is, what people expect from marriage? Overview of traditional marriage may no longer be relevant to follow. Could be. According to Haag, marriage is considered failed, because people are too hopeful. Instead many people underestimate single marriage, not many things that can be obtained and added to live only from a wedding.

Haag did not have a specific pattern of a wedding 'perfect'. In his book he only gives advice to think more openly and trying to 'get out of the box'. For example, the promise of the future wife or husband to give it the real thing that accurate and relevant to the lives of both, do not have grandiose and full of sweet words redundant. It could also implement policies to sleep separately in different rooms or perhaps a more extreme manner, allowing couples to having an affair, and many more.

Marriage like a maze, scary, challenging, and the stakes are huge!