So I am Single. I have been dating since high school and have
had a few boyfriends but nothing healthy or long lasting. I have
had my heartbroken and honestly, can't remember breaking any
myself. I have met so many men from different backgrounds and
I rarely have a boyfriend long enough for my friends and family
to meet them. Every so often someone gets a glimpse of one of my
dates, and this is the only proof that some of them actually
So I have had my heart broken, been dumped, rejected, denied and
fired....and I still feel on top of this beautiful, exciting and
promising world. I feel this way because I know that the man of
my dreams is out there. I just know it! I am thankful that these
men have moved on briskly because if the losers stick around, I
wont be available when Mr Right gets here. So I have changed
what getting dumped means to me and crazily enough, after
shedding a tear or two, especially for the ones I thought id
marry, I get excited!
Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaand just because we are ladies in waiting, it does
not mean that we cant have a little fun now does it? Of course
not! So let me give you a some tips on how to do that ;-)
Tip #1 Fake it till you make it!
People believe what they see. Men are attracted to modest
confidence, womanliness and the biggest most important one of
all....Mystery! They love it!! So if you are not already one of
those girls....start there! The real lessons will come later!
Tip #2 Don't have to be rich to wear hot clothes?
If you haven't already noticed....the whole entire fashion world
is based on peoples ideas on what is cool and wearable. The
people that start these trends are people like you and me. So
whats stopping us from using our creativity? Nothing! I like
beautiful new season clothes from Portmans and Principles but
the truth is...I cant afford it all the time! So I improvise. I
find and outfit that suits my figure perfectly and duplicate it
in heaps of different colors and accessories. Your sure to
always look good. Don't forget to watch a little MTV or E
Channel to get the latest scoop in fashion too!
Tip #3 Less Is More
Easy on the War Paint! I love make up...adore it! Would be lost
without it. However, I have seen sooooooooooooo many girls out
there who pile on the make up. There is a huge difference
between day wear, evening wear and dress ups. Day wear you want
to have something very natural. Foundation (maybe some powder or
bronzer), a little eye brow pencil, mascara that lengthens and
frames your eyes and your favorite gloss is all you need. Ensure
you blend that foundation in.....theres nothing worse then a
mask line between your face and neck.
Evening, the same but add shimmer on your check bones and maybe
a little more mascara and a darker shade of gloss.
Dressups - (maybe out to night clubs) Go for it! Anything goes
really.....depends on who you are wanting to impress. Check out
whats the latest on E Channel, MTV and Mags for tips. Bonus Tip:
Guys like a natural looking girl. When there is too much make up
they cant help but wonder what is going on under it!!!
Tip #4 Attitude is everything...
If your having a rough time loving who you are then obviously
you have had either a broken heart, someones hurt you, someones
made you feel inadequate or you watch to much t.v. We may not
all look like models but who freakin does? There are things
about my body I hate....heaps of them....but guess what. Certain
Bras make my boobs look great and Baby Doll dress and tops hide
my tummy and dresses and skirts hide my pudgy legs. So when
looking in the mirror after I have worked my magic....I think
nothing but.... fabulous! Find what you love about you and
accentuate it! You need to believe you are worth being loved and
you need to believe you are super hot!! If you believe it, they
will believe it!
Tip #5 Smile...
People are attracted to positivity. Don't believe me??? Try it.
Not once and awhile. All the time.....see what starts to happen
when you smile. The boys boys wonder what the mystery behind
that cute smile is all about.
Tip #6 Smell Good...
Have a couple of delicious perfumes that people will remember
you by. Day and Evening fragrances. Don't load it on, just
enough so that when someone walks by they catch a hint of your
Tip #7 Don't be too eager...
When you are approached by a man and he does ask you out, which
he will. Whether it be randomly, over the net or set up by a
friend (I meet most of my men over the net). Don't put
everything off for him immediately and say YES YES YES! Be calm,
think about the date and say "that sounds really nice, can I
just check on a few things and get back to you"? Then grab his
no. and the next day call him and politely make a time that
suits you both. Your a lady after all.
Tip #8 Finally...
Be yourself....how is someone supposed to like you if your not
even being you. Be calm, cool and collected. It is normal for us
women to have a man half way down the isle on the first
date.....but don't bloody tell him that! LOL Joke a bit, smile,
be polite and don't do anything you don't feel comfortable
doing. Just because he finds you hot doesn't mean you have to
feel the same....and never ever sleep with a man on the first
Have fun :-)
About the author:
Hi There :-) I am really enjoying my journey through out the
internet and am delighted with what resources I have found in
order to better myself financially and academically. I am
excited about what the future holds for me and am relieved that
I have finally found my niche. Which is learning and becoming
successful in something I love.